Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of A Paine with the following comment:
I am trying to track down the grave of my grandmother, Alice Paine, who was killed in the war in 1941 when my mother was 11. My mother always said she had been buried in Lydd cemetery but that the grave was never marked. My mother died recently and I would like to reunite them and put up a gravestone if possible, but I need to establish where the grave is.